Thoughts

For over 30 years I worked for state government, starting out as a clerk and ending in management. Always striving for more... more status, more responsibility, more space and of course MORE MONEY, lol. There were times when I really liked what I was doing but had to move on for the "more". Now I've been "retired" for five years and have the chance to do what I want to do. For the first year of retirement I played. Then I got cancer and was diagnosed with Lupus and spent over a year pretending I was OK even though I wasn't. I still pretend some about the Lupus (nobody likes a whiner). Now I keep busy, busy, busy! I take care of the grandkids when my kids need a get-away or just need a helping hand. I still have more hobbies than it is possible to handle (cooking, scrapbooking, photography, guitar (what a joke), singing with a church group, reading, gardening, sewing, hosting murder mysteries, traveling (goes well with the photography) and of course spending time with my kids and their families). In my spare time I have my embroidery business, which is what I should be working on at this moment. The business has become exactly what I envisioned and more. If I wanted to worker harder, I could. I am proud of the fact that I (we) made an investment and it is paying off. Anyway, it is a gorgeous Fall day here and I mean to make the most of it. Will spend some time (actually a lot of time) in the loft working on jobs that need to get done and maybe rake a few leaves. We seem to have an abundance of them, living in the middle of the woods like we do. Adios for now!

Persistence

When things go wrong as they sometimes will;

When the road you're trudging seems all uphill;

When the funds are low, and the debts are high

And you want to smile, but have to sigh;

When care is pressing you down a bit-

Rest if you must, but do not quit.

Success is failure turned inside out;

The silver tint of the clouds of doubt;

And you can never tell how close you are

It may be near when it seems so far;

So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit-

It's when things go wrong that you must not quit.~ Unknown

Thought for the Day

Handle every situation like a dog.

If you can't eat it or hump it...

Piss on it and walk away.

Road Trip

Jim and I love to vacation. We've taken some cool reprieves from life in the last few years - a couple of cruises, a trip to Ireland, and various short trips around the states or in Missouri. We often travel with our close friends, Patti and Gerard. Patti and I call ourselves the Evil Twins because we think so much alike. Patti and Jim are the wild ones. Gerard and I usually sit back and quietly shake our heads. It is a good mix for travel.

Our most recent trip was not relaxing like a cruise. It involved unpacking a truck load of crap into a hotel room at the end of each long day and packing up and going again the next day. It was worth every bag and cooler we lifted and toted, though.

We toured the countryside in search of scenic country roads, fall foliage, wineries and interesting places (not necessarily in that order..) Our only agenda was the things mentioned above and a general direction of Missouri to Illinois to Kentucky to Virginia to West Virginia and back through Tennessee. The two hard fast rules were no agenda and no fast food. We planned on going as far as we could at whatever pace we wanted in seven days. Most of our meals were sandwiches out of a cooler, although we did eat at a few good "locals" restaurants. We mostly stayed at hotels that served the gross "hot" fast start breakfast every morning. Our original intent was to stay at privately run motels but every time we got close enough to consider one of them.... well, let's just say they looked like they might be booking them by the hour, not the night.

Did you know that Chester, Illinois is the home of Popeye? Neither did we. That is where we ended up the first night out after going to at least 8 wineries (no, we were not drunk... but we sure saw some folks who were!) We stopped in Chester because it was time to stop... When we asked the hotel clerk if there was anything interestiing about Chester, she grinned and told us we were in the town where the creator of Popeye had lived. Now that is what I call a good start to a road trip!

The next day we headed into Kentucky. We toured the Woodford Reserve Distillery at some point. It was very interesting. Of course, we had to buy an expensive bottle of Kentucky Straight Bourbon. I'm not too sure what "special" occasion will justify breaking that bottle open. We stopped at the birth place of Abe Lincoln (yea, I thought it was in Illinois too, but discovered on this trip that he was born outside of Hodgenville, KY. Pretty area. We toured the home of Senator Henry Clay in Lexington and stopped at the Keeneland Race Tracks, hoping to bet on a horse race (would have been a first for all four of us). We should have known something wasn't quite right when we were able to park close to the entrance and walk right in, lol. It was a "dark" day... no races. Amazingly, though, they let visitors just wander around. We were able to walk through the tunnel where the horse enter through and right down onto the track. It was interesting to look at the place from below like that. (I know, I have a wierd sense of what is interesting...)

The few tours mentioned above was the end of any formal site seeing. The rest of our trip was gawking and talking to the personalities we met along the way. And boy did we meet some interesting folks! We stopped at wineries where the wine was made from only apples and cherries - no grapes. The "vintner" was outside stacking wood. We parked our truck close to an old building built kind of like a shed. A lady was walking around and Jim (being Jim...) was making small talk with her. Told her he sure liked sheds like that. She informed him that "shed" was her home... sigh. So much for schmoozing with the locals, huh.

We searched out another winery that was out in the middle of nowhere. We were driving down cow paths, hoping nothing was coming the other way. As we got close there was a sign that said honk for winery... I kid you not! Well we honked, drove on down the path and sure enough eventually someone showed up to serve us. It was a young lady who knew absolutely nothing about wine. She told us that the owner, Charlie, was going through a messy divorce and was at the court house. The more she talked, the more we found out about Charlie (he had a teen, his grape crop hadn't been harvested that year because family hadn't helped like they promised, he was into too many different things, his house needed a lot of work... ) It didn't take long to figure out that this cute little thing was part of the messy divorce (I won't go so far as to say that she was the cause of it - Charlie seemed to come with a lot of baggage). Anyway, when she finally got around to letting us taste the wine, she was pulling out already opened bottles that had been stored in a refrigerator and tasting each wine herself to make sure it was good before she would let us have a taste! What a hoot. We left there with our sides hurting, we were laughing so hard. Poor Charlie...

Then there was the winery where ma and junior shared the vintner status. Nothing was safe. They had dandelion, turnip, ginsing... you name it! When I asked to taste the ginsing wine he poured me a glass and grinned (black teeth and all) and said, "I'll give ya some but you ain't gonna like it..." He was right! Gross! He said he made it because some folks thought it was good for their health. Oh well. Then he pulled out the Rye Whiskey. OMG. That stuff was so smoothe. Yep, we had to buy a bottle of that stuff. And we moved on down the road...

We saw some gorgeous scenery. Especially when we got into Virginia and West Virgina. Some of the prettiest was at the Cumberland Gap, Pinacle Overlook and the New River Gorge Bridge in West Virginia. The Appalacian Mountains were just full of Oooh! Ahhhhh! Loooook! The entire trip out we stayed off the Interstate as much as possible. Once we pointed the truck homeward, we got on the interstate and drove. We didn't spend any time in Tennessee. We decided we live close enough that we can do a weekend trip to Memphis. I've always wanted to spend an evening listening to music on Beal Street.

I only took 220 pictures. I'll post a few of the prettier ones. I can still close my eyes and see the patchwork quilts of the mountains. This is a trip I won't soon forget.

Pass the mustard please...

Sandwich generation. That is where I am.

Earlier this week I was celebrating the birth of our new granddaughter, babysitting for other grandkids, picking up my oldest grandkid from shool. Today I was cutting, washing and setting my mom's hair and feeding my parents supper for the second time this week. Our grandchildren are learning new things daily; my parents are forgetting things daily that used to be day to day normal Me? I am right in between. Still learning new things and forgetting things I didn't really need to know in the first place - or just forgetting things and pretending I didn't need to know them in the first place.

But that isn't what they really mean when they call us the sandwich generation. I am caring for my parents - spending as much time as possible with them, feeding them, caring for them. I am caring for my children, celebrating all the high points of their busy lives and being there to help when they need a sick child taken to the doctor or maybe when they need a weekend away or when they need that new pair of trousers hemmed.... well you know... just when. Now that is what I call a sandwich.

But I think many forget that there is more to the sandwich then the two pieces of bread on each end, squishing what is inside. The meat. That is me... the meat. I am being pulled in all of these different directions because I am strong enough to take it.

So, pass the mustard, please. I feel a little spicy tonight!

Woolgathering

Isn't that what a blog is? Woolgathering?

woolgathering \WOOL-gath-(uh)-ring\, noun:Indulgence in idle daydreaming

I'm sure some blogs are anything but woolgathering. Blogs are more often used to make a statement. Take a stand. I am ashamed to admit that I take a stand on very few things. But those who know me know that when I do take a stand, I don't back down. If one of those things become an issue, then my blog will cease to be woolgathering and will become a statement of what I believe in.

This is my first attempt at blogging.

The thing most on my mind right now is the birth of our new granddaughter yesterday. She is a pretty little baby. After the birth of three children and ten grandchildren, you would think I would no longer find a new life quite so fascinating and start taking it all for granted. But that just isn't the case! We were right there at the hospital with cameras ready just as if little Reagan were the first baby ever born. I try to spend time with each of the grandchildren. It gets a little difficult to do without playing favorites. Some of the kids live closer and are just easier to get over here for a day. Others are just easier to be around!

If I can figure out how, I will post a picture of me and my new granddaughter, Reagen.